Have you ever felt like something was missing in your life, even when everything seemed perfect on the surface? That was me a happy wife, mother and educator yet I couldn't shake the feeling that a piece of my life's puzzle was missing. It wasn't until I embarked on a journey to become an Image Consultant that I found the clarity I needed. This experience was transformative. Something that started as a certification in grooming and etiquette brought me a clear understanding of my image, my self-image my strengths and what I truly wanted to achieve. It was a revelation that everyone has a purpose; we just need to realize it and pursue it passionately. Now, as an Image Coach, Life Coach and NLP Practitioner, I am passionate about helping others discover their purpose and live a fulfilled life.
Why Finding Your Purpose Matters?
Finding your purpose is not just about achieving goals or ticking off milestones; it’s about understanding why you do what you do and finding joy in it. As Viktor Frankl, author of Man’s Search for Meaning, said, “Life is never made unbearable by circumstances, but only by lack of meaning and purpose.” When you find your purpose:
• You Gain Clarity: You understand your strengths and passions, making it easier to make decisions and set meaningful goals. Steve Jobs once said, “Your work is going to fill a large part of your life and the only way to be truly satisfied is to do what you believe is great work.” Finding your purpose can guide you towards that great work.
• You Feel Fulfilled: Knowing your purpose brings a sense of fulfillment and contentment that transcends material success. According to a study published in Psychological Science, individuals who have a clear sense of purpose are more satisfied with their lives and have better mental health.
• You Make an Impact: With a clear purpose, your actions align with your values, allowing you to make a positive impact on others. For instance, Malala Yousafzai found her purpose in advocating for education and her efforts have inspired millions around the world.
After finding my purpose, I experienced a profound transformation. I felt a sense of liberation and clarity that empowered me to help others with confidence and passion. My work as an Image Coach and Life Coach became not just a job but a calling that I wholeheartedly love and believe in.
Steps to Find Your Purpose
Everyone talks about why it's important to discover your purpose. However, very few offer concrete steps to help you truly find it. Let me guide you through a step-by-step process that you can use to discover your purpose.
1. Self-Reflection: Start with introspection. Ask yourself questions like:
• What activities make you lose track of time?
• What topics are you passionate about?
• What are your core values?
Journaling your thoughts can provide deep insights into your true self.
2. Identifying Passions and Interests: Think about the things that excite you. For me, it was the idea of helping others transforms their lives through image consultancy. Volunteering, hobbies and creative projects can also reveal your passions.
3. Recognizing Strengths: Understanding your strengths is crucial. Here are some natural ways to discover your strengths:
• Feedback from Others: inquire links, relatives and age group what they think you shine at. Now and then others are able to observe strength that you may miss.
• Reflect on Past Successes: Think about past achievements and what skills or qualities helped you succeed.
• Notice What Comes Naturally: Pay attention to tasks that you find easy or enjoyable compared to others.
• Observe You’re Energy Levels: Notice activities that energize you and make you feel accomplished.
4. Understanding Values: Your values are the guiding principles of your life. Aligning your goals with your values ensures that your purpose is meaningful and fulfilling. My values of creativity, empathy and growth have been the cornerstones of my journey.
5. Exploring Impact: Consider how you want to make a difference in the world. Who do you want to help? For me, it was clear–I wanted to help individuals gain confidence and clarity in their lives, just as I had.
Through my journey, I’ve learned that finding purpose is about aligning your passions, strengths and values with a greater impact. Your journey to finding your purpose is unique. It may take time, but every step brings you closer to living a life of fulfillment. Remember, you are not alone. Many have walked this path and found their purpose and so can you.
How Can I Help You?
As an Image Coach, NLP Practitioner and Life Coach, I am here to guide you every step of the way. Whether it's through creating a vision board, setting goals, or personalized one-on-one coaching, I can help you discover your purpose and live a liberated, meaningful life.
So, are you prepared to get on our passage to ruling our function? Share your experiences in the comments below and let’s support each other on this incredible journey. Remember, your purpose is waiting to be discovered–you just need to take the first step.
You can reach out to me on Instagram @swapnamenon_official and I’ll help you discover your purpose.
